A different perspective of migration

A different perspective of migration:

Have you migrated to other country?

As a person who has moved from their country to other, my grandfather tell me a story about how migration give us some challenges. When I have 10 years old my family have move to other country because of some problems like money, no job opportunity, the situation have been difficult to everyone, so my dad take the actions, he told us that the situation was going to get worse so the better decision was to move earlier so we could stay trying to have better lives in other country. My life was going well at first, I didn’t expect that I would become stressed and felling bad at the first time.

My grandfather told me that when we move at first time the documentary for changing to other country was too heavy, he told me that when we were moving to the other country, they saw how other persons were in terrible conditions not like us, that other people was been reported to their countries because they didn’t have the correct documentary, obviously like I was 10 years old I wasn’t able to understand what was going on. When we moved finally mi grandfather told me that my father was so stressed because of the money, our coins wasn’t too expensive like the other one, so we must work just when we put a foot on the other side, my mother suffered a lot because she wasn’t able to get a job earlier than my father did, my grandfather told me that he was taking care of me while my fathers were working. Other thing that got me shocked was the rest of the family, my parents lie to me a little bit because they didn’t want me to be scared about moving to another place so they told me that we were going just on a trip and we will get back soon, obviously later I comprehend that that was a lie but I didn’t blame my fathers about their decision, my grandfather told me that when we moved my father was so sad about leaving their family behind, I always knew that my father have a big relation with the family and was something very important for him, but he had us, we were his motive to still working and doing the best for us.

Well when I move to this country I have difficult moments too, maybe no what my fathers passed but I have a lot of problems adapting too growing with some traditions and in the ‘’new world’’ they don’t exist is kind of difficult because all you know is not on the new place you are growing, the language was difficult too because trying to understand the accents of others at the same time you are trying to process that your costumes doesn’t exist anymore so you stared to feel tired, confuse, sad, stressed, angry, a lot of emotions that mixed inside of you giving something that you can not express, hopefully my family and other good friends help me on what way choose.

So, knowing all of this we can notice that changing of country can be difficult but at the same time we can go on the correct way if you have the right persons to guide you with love and will sound crazy and stupid but is right so if you are going to move to other country don’t be afraid of express yourself.